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Coming out - one of the hardest times of your life. Before you come out it seems like one of the worst things that can ever happen in your life. But, from my experience and my friends experiences, each time you tell someone it get's just that little bit easier and you start to know the answers to people questions, and what to do if you get a negative response. The following documents try to explain how to prepare yourself to comeout and just help give you some support. The golden rule is to wait until your ready to comeout, don't be pushed into it. Make sure you are happy with other people knowing, for example when I came out the first person I told face to face was my counsellor. And this really helped me. My coming out story is also on here, but remember yours may be completely different.
 

coming out - what does it mean?

Identifying oneself as lesbian, gay or bi-sexual and disclosing this to other people is often referred to as 'coming out'.
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24 tips for coming out - some do's and dont's

This list will help you prepare for coming out to someone for the first time. Being prepared and choose the time appropriatly will help.
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coming out to your parents

A guide that takes both the child and parent through the coming out process and the stages and emotions involved. It shows that shock, denial and grief can all be perfectly normal and understandable emotions to go through.
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be yourself - q&a for gay, lesbian and bi-sexual youth

If you're a gay, lesbian, or bisexual teenager - or if you think you might be gay or wonder if you are - life is even more confusing, because probably no one ever prepared you for that.
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the politics of coming out

Coming out has to do with how we perceive ourselves, with how we deal with our sexuality, with how we structure our lives, and with how we present ourselves and our loved ones to our families, to our friends, or to the world. It is a life-long process, in which we constantly deal with the acceptance and integration of our gayness within a partially repressive and hostile society.
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now that i know - who do i tell ... and how?

Its an old saying but it has more than a grain of truth in it - Your friend's you can choose, your family you re stuck with. Judging who to tell or confide in can be tricky because there are no fool-proof guidelines.
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choices for young men coming out

If you realise you are gay or bisexual, then you're in good company. There are hundreds of thousands of men who are too. Black, white, Asian. Men of all races, religions and cultures, doing any job you can think of.
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